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11-4-06

Panel 1:  On a lark, I went to visit Matt.  Big mistake.  You are the antithesis of everything holy and trustworthy.  Wow.  Panel 2:  Upset, I went over to Robin's house.  You're a hedonist!  It's just who you are!  I know...  Panel 3: Later we went out for drinks with Jane & Jesse.  I'll do that for you; it's hard to do stuff when you're drunk.  Thanks Jane.

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It's hard to do things when drunk. Sadly, I'm drunk all the time. My life is hard.

KG

"You're the antithesis of everything holy and trustworthy"?!? He can say this because he's so deeply deeply pious I take it. Oh, no, wait, the truly pious would never judge. I'd take hedonism over hypocrisy any day.

Larry H, You've made some strong statements here. Because I am the subject of your attack, I'll borrow a line from Samuel L. Jackson, "Please allow me to retort!"

You are faulting me for judging people, while you are judging me. You are judging me based on one frame from a comic. You are judging me based on one phrase from a three hour conversation. A stressful, uninvited conversation that took place at the end of an eleven month relationship. The ending of this relationship was rather tough on me, as I understand it may have been for Lulu too, but I can't say. I think it's understandable to have strong feelings during such times.

When authoring this comic, Lulu decided not to draw the events immediately preceding my harsh statement. I said to her, "A lot of my feelings have turned bitter. I'm afraid of the things I might say." And Lulu said "Lemme have it."

I will openly admit that I was a horrific asshole in this situation to anyone who knows all the facts. That short list of people includes Lulu and myself. I've never tried to convince Lulu that I was perfect. In my experience, no one is.

In this instance there are a lot of things going on behind the curtains that the reader doesn't know about. Lulu has chosen what to deliver to the audience. Drawing an honest comic based on your own life must be very tough. I applaud her for being brave enough to bare the unpleasant stuff. That's what makes reader feel connected. That's what makes Lulu's comic great.

Lulu, I'm glad you're drawing again!

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